Better than a cuppa

Reasons to take part

When it comes to fundraisers, the usual suspects—bake sales, fairs, and tea parties—might seem like the safest and most appealing options for Muslim women. After all, who doesn’t love cakes, samosas, and a chance to dress up and socialise over tea? But let’s be honest: they’re also predictable, repetitive, and—dare we say it—a bit uninspired.

Enter the Trials & Tribulations challenge: an exhilarating, muddy, and totally unexpected alternative that’s not only exciting but also packed with deeper lessons. Here’s why we think the Trials & Tribulations challenge beats the classic fundraiser options hands down.

It’s a physical and mental challenge

Let’s face it: most fundraisers are comfortable. A bake sale? You bake some goodies, set up a table, and wait for people to buy them. A tea party? You sip tea, nibble on snacks, and chat. But Trials & Tribulations? That’s a real challenge. It’s about pushing yourself out of your comfort zone—physically, mentally, and emotionally.

For Muslim women who may not often get opportunities for outdoor adventure, Trials & Tribulations offers something unique: a chance to test your limits, develop resilience, and realise how capable you really are. Crawling under nets, scaling slippery slopes, and trudging through waist-high mud isn’t just fun (yes, it’s fun!); it’s empowering. You come out of it stronger—body and soul.

It’s inclusive and encourages teamwork

Unlike tea parties, which often cater to a specific social group, or bake sales, where a few people do the hard work while others just drop by, Trials & Tribulations is inherently inclusive. Everyone who participates is in it together. There’s no hierarchy of organisers and attendees; everyone gets equally dirty, equally tired, and equally exhilarated.

The Trials & Tribulations challenge isn’t just about finishing the course—it’s about helping each other along the way. Need a hand climbing a muddy wall? Someone’s got your back. Stuck in knee-deep muck? Your sisters will pull you out. This kind of camaraderie builds bonds that no tea party chit-chat could ever achieve.

It’s modest and comfortable

Muslim women often face challenges when participating in mainstream outdoor activities due to clothing restrictions or environments that aren’t particularly accommodating. But Trials & Tribulations? It’s one of the few spaces where turning up in loose, modest clothing actually works in your favour. No one’s judging your long sleeves and hijab when everyone’s covered in mud and focused on surviving the next obstacle.

Plus, there’s something refreshing about a setting where no one cares about looking perfect. Trials & Tribulations runs strip away appearances (quite literally!) and put everyone on an equal playing field. It’s not about how you look—it’s about what you can do.

It’s a symbolic reflection of real struggles

One of the most profound aspects of Trials & Tribulations is how it mirrors the challenges faced by people living in hardship. For Muslim women often fundraising for causes like refugee relief, humanitarian aid, or disaster recovery, Trials & Tribulations brings a small, symbolic taste of the struggles those they are helping endure every day.

You get thrown into an environment where you’re out of control, uncomfortable, and unprepared—yet you have to keep going. That sense of perseverance and resilience resonates deeply. Unlike a tea party, which might make you feel good but detached from the cause, a mud run gives you a visceral connection to the people you’re raising funds for. You leave not only with dirty shoes but also with a renewed sense of purpose.

It’s memorable and stands out

Let’s be honest: bake sales and tea parties are lovely, but they’re also forgettable. How many bake sales have you attended in your life? Can you even count? And how many of them stand out as the bake sale you’ll remember forever? Probably none.

Trials & Tribulations, on the other hand, is unforgettable. It’s a story you’ll tell for years: “Remember when we had to crawl under that barbed wire in the freezing mud?” or “Do you remember how we cheered each other on to get over that wall?” It creates lasting memories and a sense of accomplishment that no tray of cupcakes or cup of tea can ever replicate.

It raises more than just money

Bake sales and tea parties raise funds, sure. But Trials & Tribulations raises more than that: it raises awareness, unity, and community spirit. It shows that Muslim women can step out of their comfort zones, take on challenges, and do something unexpected. It’s an opportunity to break stereotypes, showcase strength, and inspire others to join the cause.

It’s just more fun

Let’s not underestimate the pure fun factor. A bake sale might give you a sugar high, but Trials & Tribulations gives you adrenaline, laughter, and the satisfaction of doing something completely out of the ordinary. Sure, you’ll be exhausted and filthy at the end, but you’ll also feel alive and accomplished.

Conclusion

While bake sales, fairs, and tea parties have their place, it’s time for something new. Trials & Tribulations isn’t just an activity—it’s an experience. It challenges you, bonds you with others, and gives you a small insight into the struggles of those you’re raising funds for. Plus, it’s unforgettable, empowering, and downright fun.

So the next time you’re planning a fundraiser, ditch the cupcakes and kettles. Grab your trainers, rally your sisters, and get ready to embrace the mud. Because sometimes, the messiest challenges are the ones that leave the greatest impact.