“Whoever does not thank people does not thank Allah.” (Hadith, Abu Dawud and Tirmidhi)
The mums have gone home, but you have not quite finished. This section covers recovery, thanks, the money raised, telling the story and keeping the lessons alive.
The days after
Expect tired, stiff and slightly emotional mums for a day or two. A hot meal, plenty of water and an early night are the best remedy, and aching muscles are normal.
Some will say little at first. Let the day settle. Conversations often come later.
Within the week
Close the challenge properly. Within a week:
- message every mum to thank her;
- return lost property;
- follow up any injury or worry noted on the day;
- transfer the money raised and keep the receipt;
- store registers, consent forms and risk assessments securely.
Handing over the money
Send the money to the cause without delay and keep written confirmation. Then tell supporters the total and what it will achieve. Trust grows when people can see where their gift went.
Thank everyone
Thank everyone who made it happen, by name where you can. A handwritten note carries more weight than a group email.
Thank the guides, instructors, drivers and volunteers; the venues and sponsors; and the families who lent you a mum for a weekend and trusted you with her.
Telling the story
Share what happened honestly and respectfully. Use photographs and stories only with each mum’s permission. Do not claim that the challenge matched what refugees endure.
The mums’ own words are the best account. Ask them to write a few lines, or to speak at a community event.
A celebration, some weeks later
Hold a celebration dinner a few weeks after, to which families and the wider community are invited. It is the opposite of the challenge in tone. The mums dress up and feel special.
You might:
- share a short video of highlights;
- hear from the charity about what the money will do;
- announce the total raised;
- invite the guides and the madrasah leaders to celebrate;
- give prizes for spirit, courage, teamwork and inspiration.
Make sure no one leaves without recognition. Prizes should be generous and inclusive.
Keeping it alive
A shared experience fades fast unless someone keeps it alive. A few ideas:
- display a photograph and a short note at the mosque or madrasah;
- invite a refugee speaker or volunteer to visit;
- mark one day each year to remember the cause;
- ask past participants to help the next group prepare;
- gather the mums informally from time to time.
Staying connected to the cause
A single day is a beginning. The cause needs more than that.
Where you can, keep a link with the charity. Mums might give a small regular amount, volunteer, help with a collection, or become advocates in their own communities. Keep praying for those who are still on the road.
May Allah accept what we have done and make us a source of ease for others. Ameen.